Welcome to Daisy Chain Ceremonies
“Caring for your family…. as my own”
Welcome to my website I am Victoria (Vicky) Wesley and I have been honoured to work in the funeral profession for almost 40 years. I began my journey when I was just 15 years old working in my family’s funeral directors in the North West and was so proud when I qualified as a funeral director three years later.
I proudly served our local families for a number of years, becoming part of the communities I worked in. I am still in contact with many of the families I have helped over the years and now count them as friends and I am so grateful to be involved in their celebrations as well as honoured to help them say goodbye to their loved ones.
Time and life move on though and I continued my journey within the corporate funeral world, which came with an opportunity to move to the South coast, helping me to realise a personal dream, living by the sea!
After a while here I realised working for a corporation no longer allowed me to provide care for families on a personal level and this is where my passion and heart has always rested, helping and guiding families through what is possibly the hardest time of their lives and of course helping them to remember, commemorate and celebrate their loved one’s life.
So in 2016 I began a new chapter and left the corporate world behind and came back to the beginning, back to caring for families now in my role as a celebrant, helping people to remember, to love and to never forget.
Funeral Services and Celebrations of Life
“Grieving may be universal, but we all do it in our own unique way”
Each person lives a unique life and it is my belief, that a funeral service should reflect this, paying tribute to and celebrating the life of your loved one, and also acknowledging the pain and loss you the family are feeling.
I will come and see you and your family and explain all the options that are available to you, as a family. We will discuss the music, memories, reading and poems that you would like for the funeral service and if your family would like to share their memories in the service, I will support you to achieve this.
Every ceremony will be individually designed for you and you will receive a draft copy for your approval, keeping you involved in the service and at the heart of the service will be your loved one. I have worked in the funeral industry for 40 years and I passionately believe that.
“saying goodbye is just as important as saying hello”
Together we will make sure your loved one has a funeral service that truly reflects their life, celebrates their achievements and everything that was important to them.
Together we will remember.
Over my career I have mourned and cried with families at times, but I have also celebrated with them too and when the time comes for you to smile, I would be honoured to share those occasions with you also, please contact me for
Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Renewal of Vows, Naming Ceremonies
As with everything I do, each service will be individually composed with your input and beliefs at the forefront. Together we will create a beautiful ceremony that reflects you and your family and the occasion we are celebrating together.
Tel: 07973531421
Email: victoria.wesley@outlook.com
Hi Vicki, I just wanted to thank you personally for doing such an amazing eulogy for my mum today. You made us feel welcomed, loved and just made the service easier to cope with and made us feel more at ease. The send off was perfect and mum would have loved that you managed to get people up and dancing at the end. We couldn't have made a better choice than you to do the service. Thankyou from the bottom of my heart. My mum would have loved you. Helen Buller xxx
Helen Buller Monday, March 30, 2026
Vicky made us all feel completely at ease, from the moment she arrived to meet with us. Her lovely warm, down to earth yet professional approach left us feeling in safe hands from the outset. Leading up to Dads service, Vicky was happy to make as many amendments as necessary, to ensure the content and detail were just right. On the day, Vickys welcome to our family was so encouraging and numerous guests commented afterwards on what a lovely service it was and how brilliantly Vicky delivered her parts. Vicky knew just the right thing to say as Mum left the chapel and, yet again, her depth of experience and lovely personality shone through. Thank you Vicky, it would have been a much more difficult day without you. We wont hesitate to recommend you!
Alison Craig Monday, November 18, 2019
Thank you Vicky so much, we wanted a Celebration of Barrys life,and boy did you portray his memory to everyone, it was as though you had known him as we had all his life.You truly have a beautiful soul,personality, professionalism, compassion,you have in abundance.Once again thank you Vicky,from Angie,Mark,Nicki,Jude,Zak,Ruby and of course Barrys boy Ollie, x
Angie Cox and family Monday, April 27, 2026
We would like to thank you so much for delivering a beautiful heartfelt service at our brother Colins funeral. It was a truly perfect tribute . From the moment we met you , you treated us with kindness and compassion which made a difficult time that little bit easier to bear.Every detail of the service felt personal and meaningful. Your thoughtful gesture of wearing a Southampton football club scarf was a lovely and touching tribute. People commented on how uplifting the service was . You are amazing and we wouldnt hesitate to recommend your services to anyone. Thanks again from all the family xx
Sally Kretzer Tuesday, May 5, 2026
Dear Vicky, I just wanted to say a huge, huge thank you to you, for what I can only describe as an incredible service. You spoke about my Dad as if you had known him and us for many years. In my opinion not many people can achieve this. When you were talking, the way in which you spoke about my Dad, gave me goose bumps Nice one!. Your professionalism and attention to detailed delivered an amazing service of which is still being talked about. And will be for many years. Many people at the wake, approached me, commenting on what a fabulous service you provided and asking for your details, of which I was only too happy to give. On a more serious note, as you know I was finding this whole experience very hard to deal with. I honestly think that with out you helping me through the day, I dont think I would have been able to do half the things that I actually accomplished. Thanks again for giving me the courage to give my Dad the send off that he quite rightly deserved. I picked up my Dads ashes today from the crematorium, think I only just missed you, and also told them that you did an incredible job! The icing on the cake, A copy of the service for me to keep, to read back to myself at my leisure, which is absolutely priceless. I will be alternatively grateful. Thank you & kindest regards
Client In Southampton Wednesday, March 20, 2019
Get In Touch!
Address: 229 Hampton Lane, Blackfield, Southampton, SO451XA
Telephone: 07973531421
Email Address: victoria.wesley@outlook.com