Welcome to Daisy Chain Ceremonies
“Caring for your family…. as my own”
Welcome to my website I am Victoria (Vicky) Wesley and I have been honoured to work in the funeral profession for almost 40 years. I began my journey when I was just 15 years old working in my family’s funeral directors in the North West and was so proud when I qualified as a funeral director three years later.
I proudly served our local families for a number of years, becoming part of the communities I worked in. I am still in contact with many of the families I have helped over the years and now count them as friends and I am so grateful to be involved in their celebrations as well as honoured to help them say goodbye to their loved ones.
Time and life move on though and I continued my journey within the corporate funeral world, which came with an opportunity to move to the South coast, helping me to realise a personal dream, living by the sea!
After a while here I realised working for a corporation no longer allowed me to provide care for families on a personal level and this is where my passion and heart has always rested, helping and guiding families through what is possibly the hardest time of their lives and of course helping them to remember, commemorate and celebrate their loved one’s life.
So in 2016 I began a new chapter and left the corporate world behind and came back to the beginning, back to caring for families now in my role as a celebrant, helping people to remember, to love and to never forget.
Funeral Services and Celebrations of Life
“Grieving may be universal, but we all do it in our own unique way”
Each person lives a unique life and it is my belief, that a funeral service should reflect this, paying tribute to and celebrating the life of your loved one, and also acknowledging the pain and loss you the family are feeling.
I will come and see you and your family and explain all the options that are available to you, as a family. We will discuss the music, memories, reading and poems that you would like for the funeral service and if your family would like to share their memories in the service, I will support you to achieve this.
Every ceremony will be individually designed for you and you will receive a draft copy for your approval, keeping you involved in the service and at the heart of the service will be your loved one. I have worked in the funeral industry for 40 years and I passionately believe that.
“saying goodbye is just as important as saying hello”
Together we will make sure your loved one has a funeral service that truly reflects their life, celebrates their achievements and everything that was important to them.
Together we will remember.
Over my career I have mourned and cried with families at times, but I have also celebrated with them too and when the time comes for you to smile, I would be honoured to share those occasions with you also, please contact me for
Weddings, Civil Partnerships, Renewal of Vows, Naming Ceremonies
As with everything I do, each service will be individually composed with your input and beliefs at the forefront. Together we will create a beautiful ceremony that reflects you and your family and the occasion we are celebrating together.
Tel: 07973531421
Email: victoria.wesley@outlook.com
Vicky was amazing from the moment I contacted her, right up to the day of my mums celebration of life. She brought a perfect balance of professionalism, sensitivity and humour to the process and on the day itself she helped enormously by herding guests to be seated and leading the ceremony. She met with the family in advance of the ceremony to find out about mums life and she respected and fulfilled our preferences and requests. Vicky, you are truly lovely and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts for making our final goodbye to our beloved mum (and wife, daughter, nanny and friend) a beautiful and special occasion that we will always remember with happiness.
Emma Tuesday, July 8, 2025
What can i say!! Apart from THANK YOU so much for carrying out Mothers service to absolute perfection. You are an amazing person & your expertise is second to none. Everybody commented on how lovely the service was, again down to your proffesionalism. We will always recommend you in the future & lets hope next time we meet will be for a happier occasion, like a wedding! Thank You again & we all wish you the very best for the future!
Jack Johnson Thursday, July 8, 2021
Dear Vicky, I would like to thank you very much for your time and support following the death of my wonderful wife Valerie. At a very difficult time you were able to guide us all through the process. You are kind hearted and because you care about the work you do you were able to bring Valerie back to life with enabling us all to provide you with our memories and you paid her the most moving of tributes. Many thanks Tony
Tony Saturday, February 22, 2020
Hi Vicky, just a quick note to say thank you again for yesterday and celebrating my Dad in the way you did - You were exceptional in how you conducted the service and captured my Dad so well, it was like you knew him and that came across, we have had overwhelming feedback to how good you were and I wanted to make sure you knew that. Thank you so much again, in our time of pain you have really made a difference and I will be eternally grateful. Take care, Ryan x
Ryan Tuesday, May 4, 2021
I cannot recommend Vicky enough. Shes not only compassionate and kind. She also has a great sense of humour which is exactly what we needed to get through the hard times for our Joe. She goes over and above and she managed to put our thoughts into a brilliant fun and uplifting service. If you want someone empathetic, compassionate and someone whos makes a very sad thing much easier, then Vicky is for you. A real life angel. Thank you Vicky. From Gemma and Scott
Gemma and Scott. Wednesday, March 18, 2026
Get In Touch!
Address: 229 Hampton Lane, Blackfield, Southampton, SO451XA
Telephone: 07973531421
Email Address: victoria.wesley@outlook.com